Elevate your Manifesting Game

Are you hard at work trying to manifest all the abundance, all of the prosperity, all the THINGS only to continually find yourself saying,

“Why can’t I get a job?”

“I have been manifesting for years and nothing, what’s wrong with me?”

“Maybe I am just not meant to receive money like others do.”

“Why can’t I get a handle on my food, I just can’t help myself!”

“I meet nice people, but why can’t I fall in love. I am simply unlovable.”

Well, damn

Before I understood how our minds work, I thought the same thing about many of these statements.

In fact, mine had a lot to do with making money. I felt as though I had to work my butt off and when I did, I hardly had much to show for. If I quick-searched google for the top paying jobs in the US, how long would it take me to study it before I can start making money? Well, then I would have to work, HARD, and who’s to say that I will get a job after all of the studying, long dreadful hours of testing, not to mention the certified stress-case that is for sure immanent because I have a hard time retaining information to begin with...

I mean, the list could go on and on and within several seconds, I was talking myself back into vegging and feeling sorry for my lack of motivation and inability to ‘get my shit together!’ 

Why does everyone else seem to be succeeding and I am over here still trying to figure out where the hell I am going to start and what my damn purpose hasn't kindly stepped before me and said "here I am!"

You should have seen my journal. It looked like a whirling dervish of misunderstandings, judgments, contradictions, confusing words and just a full on shit-storm of thoughts.

I would express my ‘wants’ which were followed by an excuse as to why I couldn’t or wouldn’t receive it/them. “I want to be successful and make a lot of money. I am working my ass off and hardly making ends meet. Why is it so hard for me to make the money that other people make by working less hours! What does success even mean if people are just making money from not doing much.”

Woah- brash much? But, legit. These are the type of conversations I was having with myself while trying to manifest ALL THE THINGS. I was doing all the exercises that the gurus and mindful coaches were teaching, so what the hell was wrong with this picture? 

Must all be a bunch of woowoo. A fake it until you make it tactic to pry on the minds of those who are struggling, like me. I thought.

Fast forward three years…

As my teachings on the mind continue to evolve, more and more is making sense.

Why wasn’t I able to manifest like others?

Why was I working so hard, only to fall short, what felt like ALL THE TIME?

Why couldn’t I get my shit together, figure out my purpose and start making money to take care of myself?”

I know, it can all be extremely frustrating. Especially when you are putting in more ‘work’ to manifest and seeing little return in your life.

I want to share a little tip about our beautiful mind that changed everything for me. 

The mind cannot shift when two conflicting beliefs are present; furthermore, both beliefs cancel each other out making the ‘work’ that you think you’re doing, pointless. 

I want to map this out for you using one example so that you can begin your decoding process to uncover the polarities of thought and where they may have originated. Why is this important? Because when this thought originated, you experienced something that established a belief about yourself and what you think you're able to achieve or not achieve in your life.

Let’s do a quick map out. 

Example Thought: I want to make a lot of money but it requires a lot of hard work, late nights, and being in a shitty mood all the time.

Now, with the understanding that every thought is rooted from an experience, where has this thought originated from? 

Example Origin Experience: Growing up, my Mom worked late nights and spent weekends away. She told me that she made a lot of money and in order to be successful, she wouldn't be around much but that I would be "taken care of."

Now, with the understanding that every experience that is perpetuated, forms a belief about you or the world around you, what does this look like?

Example Belief that was created: In order to make a lot of money and be successful, late nights, weekends away, and never being around for those who love you, is required.

Now, with the understanding that every belief ultimately shapes our perception of ourselves, others, the world ect. How does this play out in reality?

Example Behavior: Watching Netflix, scrolling through social platforms, shaming others for posting on a boat with crystal flutes full of champagne and beating yourself up for not doing much with your life.

You see how this cycle of repetition may be halting your manifestation or blocking it completely? The mind cannot have conflicting beliefs and initiate a mindset of success and abundance at the same time.

This might look like: "I want to be in love, but it wont last." and then try to be manifesting your man/woman. OR "I want to be successful, but that means I will be working long hours, weekends, and grumpy" and then expect to have the job of your dreams and make that eff you money.

You must uncover the narrative and map it back to the origin in which the belief was created in order for you to flip the script and begin being very clear about what you believe you are capable of in order to begin seeing, feeling, experiencing a Shift!

"Money effortlessly flows to me, by just being me and doing what I love."

"I am living success each and every day, because I woke up!"

"The only make-belief is your belief that it is."

Don’t try. Just be-lieve. You're perfect.

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