Your Sabotage, The Fragile Part

Our self-sabotage is a valuable teacher.

It makes us aware, very apparently if you’re monitoring it, and shares with us extremely helpful information. That is, if we can work with the parts of us that are resisting us from baring witness to it. This is the surrender.

I, personally are continuing to navigate my work of self-discovery every opportunity that I can.

I’ve not only come to find that through my own personal work as well as working with others, sabotage is a fear based response, and something more valuable than that knowing…

When you pull up from the magnifying glass from the sabotage that many speak of, as it is being a ‘bad’ thing, you might find that it is quite the opposite.

I tend to find that sabotage is fragile. It is extremely timid. It worries constantly, hopeless often, sad.

It is afraid.

It is highly suggestible to persuasion as long as it avoids failure.

It will rationalize its behavior to avoid being rejected, even if it means pulling you from the satisfaction of peace.

But, if you understand that sabotage is just a part of you that is afraid, how would you then approach yours?

If someone you loved was afraid, how would you help them recognized why they were afraid? How might you be of service for them?

Sometimes, all you have to do is ask and become a witness, not a judge, to what it reveals to you.

It can be hard, because it requires us to see ourselves in a vulnerable way. In a way, maybe that we don’t like. Or that feels extremely painful to surface.

But upon that release, your sabotage can rest. Because maybe for the first time, it doesn’t need to be afraid anymore. Because you were the first one to show it love, to bring it to the light.

♥️  Stephanie

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